美國幼稚園給家長的備忘錄 – 從教養嬰兒到大學生都用得上

[美國幼稚園給家長的備忘錄]     太好的備忘,每個家長都留一份吧!轉起~

1. Don’t spoil me. I know quite well that I ought not to have all I ask for. I’m only testing you.   


2. Don’t be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it, it makes me feel secure.   


3. Don’t let me form bad habits. I have to rely on you to detect them in the early stages.   


4. Don’t make me feel smaller than I am. It only makes me behave stupidly “big”.   


5. Don’t correct me in front of people if you can help it. I’ll take much more notice if you talk quietly with me in private.   


6. Don’t make me feel that my mistakes are sins. It upsets my sense of values.   


7. Don’t protect me from consequences. I need to learn the painful way sometimes.   


8. Don’t be too upset when I say “I hate you”. Sometimes it isn’t you I hate but your power to thwart me.   


9. Don’t take too much notice of my small ailments. Sometimes they get me the attention I need.   


10. Don’t nag. If you do, I shall have to protect myself by appearing deaf.   


11. Don’t forget that I cannot explain myself as well as I should like. That is why I am not always accurate.   


12. Don’t put me off when I ask questions. If you do, you will find that I stop asking and seek my information elsewhere.   


13. Don’t be inconsistent. That completely confuses me and makes me lose faith in you.   


14. Don’t tell me my fears are silly. They are terribly real and you can do much to reassure me if you try to understand.   


15. Don’t ever suggest that you are perfect or infallible. It gives me too great a shock when I discover that you are neither.  


16. Don’t ever think that it is beneath your dignity to apologize to me. An honest apology makes me feel surprisingly warm towards you.   


17. Don’t forget I love experimenting. I couldn’t get along without it, so please put up with it.   


18. Don’t forget how quickly I am growing up. It must be very difficult for you to keep pace with me, but please do try.   


19. Don’t forget that I don’t thrive without lots of love and understanding, but I don’t need to tell you, do I?   


20. Please keep yourself fit and healthy. I need you.   


2 Comments on “美國幼稚園給家長的備忘錄 – 從教養嬰兒到大學生都用得上

  1. 江主任您好,我兒子今年小二,他在英文跟數學程度上比同年級的超前很多,帶他去心理醫生那做了IQ測驗,他是highly gifted kid,因為進了公立學校後他一直叫學校無聊,所以這個月轉到私立小學,我不知道應該怎麼帶他,聽別人説,這種小孩應該要找能幫助訓練他們大腦的學校,可附近都沒這種學校,他目前是在Davidson young scholar 跟 American Mensa的program裡,不知參加這些對以後申請學校有沒有幫助? 想等他大一點送到您那裡,是從九年級開始收嗎? 另外想請問,如果他以後可以提早讀完高中,不知能否提早申請大學? 我現在可以做什麼來幫他鋪路呢? 謝謝!

    • Hi, Yu Chi. 我了解你的狀況, 其實我也見過很多這種學生, 很可惜的是他們的成熟度跟智商不在同一個等級的情況下, 很多到後來就變成懶得學習, 因為他們學習比別人快, 也比別人容易. 訓練這種孩子不容易, 你要自己多費心, 因為你兒子還小, 跟母親是最親密的. 我有一些這種學生是採取自學的方式學習, 不過要看孩子是否適合, 給你參考. 至於你提到的 American Mensa program, 我不是很熟, 可能不能回答你的問題了, 謝謝!

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